Support Networks

If you or someone you care about is entering the prison system, consider the challenges ahead and opportunities for growth. Begin by acknowledging the obstacles. The system itself will impose many difficulties, but the criminal charge brings its own hurdles. A conviction can damage credibility, and some may face the painful reality of losing friends or being abandoned by acquaintances. This is a difficult part of the journey, but also presents a chance to recalibrate and rebuild. By focusing on making a strong adjustment, individuals can regain their confidence and establish a new support network—an invaluable foundation for moving forward.

When I started my sentence, I knew that restoring my life wouldn’t happen overnight. These articles aren’t about me, but they should prompt readers to think about strategies to adjust, grown, and build support through crisis.

Like many who go through adversity, I had to grapple with feelings of shame and alienation. I had lost respect and trust because of my past actions. My grandparents wouldn't speak with me, I had to rebuild.

Over time, I learned that the road to redemption required strategic, deliberate thinking. It also required action. In my case, I came up with a three-part plan that would require me to focus on: 

1. Education 
2. Contributing to Society 
3. Building Relationships 

I intended to leave prison with skills and resources that would allow me to succeed, despite the decades I intended to serve. My decisions would align with those the three-part strategy because I believed that adjustment would open more opportunities for success.

Education 

I committed to earning educational credentials to demonstrate my determination. It had to become self-evident that I didn't want to live as a criminal. Education showed people around me that I was serious about creating value and contributing to society. The academic credentials would become assets that I could use to open new opportunities. Anyone going into the system should focus on the strategy that will lead to more support in the future.

Contributing to Society 

Contribution builds trust because it shows that we're not only thinking of ourselves. As I've written elsewhere, I learned that lesson from reading about leaders. Frederick Douglass taught me a great deal about this concept. While incarcerated, I tried to find or create opportunities that would show my commitment to making amends. The harder I worked, the more I could contribute. Through those efforts, I built support. That support became an enormous asset that I could leverage. Each person should ask:

• How can I give back today?
• How can I become an asset to my community?

Building Relationships 

I treated every connection, both inside and outside prison, as an opportunity to show others my commitment to growth. Through programs, writing letters, and genuine communication, I built friendships and secured mentoring relationships that gave me hope and opened doors even while behind bars.

I also focused on collecting endorsements and testimonials over time. I could rely upon the recommendations I received from others as an asset that would help me overcome the stigma of my conviction. People are more likely to believe in you when they hear it from others who’ve witnessed your progress firsthand.

Creating a strong support system plays a crucial role in rebuilding your identity, regaining respect, and achieving long-term success.

A Support Network 

A support network serves as a foundation for growth, accountability, and opportunity. Here's why it matters: 

• Guidance and Advice: Having mentors and supporters helps you gain perspective and make smarter decisions. Experienced people can point out blind spots you might miss. 
• Accountability: Learners succeed when someone holds them accountable. A strong network keeps you focused and disciplined. 
• Opportunities: A support system opens doors. People you connect with can provide endorsements, references, or even job leads when you need them most. 
• Confidence Restored: Knowing someone values your growth builds confidence and reduces self-doubt.

Build Your Support Network 

If you’re navigating adversity and seeking a path to redemption, don’t wait for help to come your way. Be intentional, take action, and build the support system that will carry you forward. Here’s how:

Adopt a CEO Mindset 

Redefine your life as if you’re the CEO of  your life. CEOs succeed by building a capable advisory board. Take the same approach by seeking mentors and supporters who believe in your vision.

Clarify Your Goals 

People want to help those who can articulate what they want. Reflect on who you want to become and what steps will get you there. Be specific when asking for help or mentorship, and demonstrate your commitment to achieving those goals.

Focus on Contribution First 

Whether you’re still serving time, recently released, or facing another challenge, find ways to add value to others. Contribution builds trust faster than anything else. Volunteer for programs, share your story, or help others who are just starting their own transformation.

Leverage Existing Resources 

Tap into tools like mentors, educational programs, or the resources we offer at Prison Professors to enhance your knowledge and build connections. Resources are everywhere if you commit to seeking them out.

Document Your Journey 

Creating a record of your efforts can help others see the legitimacy of your growth. Whether it’s through journaling, publishing essays, or seeking written testimonials, memorializing your progress makes it easier for others to recognize your achievements. I encourage you to build and develop a profile at PrisonProfessorsTalent.com. You can use your profile as an asset to build more endorsements and testimonials, just as I do.

Reflection Questions to Take Action 

1. Who are three people you could reach out to today for guidance or mentorship? 
2. How can you create value for someone else this week? 
3. What steps have you taken recently to document your growth? 

Restoring respect and rebuilding your life after adversity is not easy—but it is possible. Transformation requires intention, accountability, and most importantly, the right people by your side.

Through education, contribution, and meaningful connections, you can build a support system that doesn’t just help during tough times but champions your success long into the future. Start today by making intentional choices and showing others the value you bring to the table.

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