Lesson 13
Serving Others
This lesson highlights service as a pathway to contribution and growth. Participants learn how helping others strengthens character and community ties. When we shift our focus from self to service, we find meaning and build relationships that support our success.
Module Resources
In This Module
Service Mindset
Shift your focus from self-interest to helping others
Building Community
Create connections through acts of service and contribution
Personal Growth
Discover how serving others accelerates your own development
The Power of Service
Zig Ziglar, a renowned motivational speaker, taught: "If you can help other people get what they want, you can get everything you want." This wisdom applies directly to preparing for success after prison.
When we focus on serving others, we:
- Build valuable relationships
- Develop skills that help us upon release
- Create a positive reputation
- Find meaning in our daily activities
Service in Prison
Even in prison, there are countless ways to serve others:
- Tutoring: Help others learn to read, write, or prepare for their GED
- Legal assistance: Learn the law and help others with their cases
- Mentoring: Guide younger people away from mistakes
- Facilitation: Lead programs or study groups
- Encouragement: Support others through difficult times
Tommy Walker, profiled earlier in this course, spent decades helping others with legal research. His service built an "extraordinary and compelling" record that eventually led to his release.
Service Builds Character
When we serve others, we develop important qualities:
- Patience: Working with others requires patience
- Communication: Helping others improves our ability to explain and teach
- Empathy: Understanding others' struggles develops compassion
- Leadership: Service often requires stepping up to lead
From Self to Others
Many people in prison focus only on themselves. They think only about their release, their problems, their needs. This self-focus limits growth.
Shifting to a service mindset opens new possibilities. Others become aware of your contributions. They want to help you in return. Your reputation improves. Your network grows. Your life gains meaning beyond your own circumstances.
Reflection Exercises
Write responses to the following questions in approximately ten minutes each.
Current Service
How are you currently serving others? What value do you bring to your community?
Service Opportunities
What opportunities exist for you to serve others? How can you expand your contribution?
Skills Through Service
What skills can you develop by serving others that will help you upon release?
Service After Release
How do you plan to serve others after release? What contribution do you want to make?