Extra Resources & Sample Letters
Access sample character reference letters from parents, siblings, spouses, employers, faith leaders, and more, plus a letter-request kit with AI prompts.
Module Resources
Learning Objectives
Sample Letters
Access letters from 10 different relationship perspectives
AI-Assisted Writing
Use prompts to help supporters draft effective letters
Complete Kit
Everything your supporters need in one downloadable package
Letter-Request Kit with AI Prompt
This comprehensive kit includes everything your supporters need to write an effective character reference letter:
- Cover note template to send to potential letter writers
- Clear instructions on format, structure, and what to include
- Do's and don'ts for effective letters
- Quick and comprehensive AI prompts supporters can use with ChatGPT or other writing tools
- Guidance on where to send the completed letter
Download Letter-Request Kit (PDF)
Sample Letters by Relationship
Each sample demonstrates how to write a specific, authentic, and impactful character reference letter. Use these as inspiration and guidance—not as templates to copy.
- Sample Letter — Parent: A mother's perspective on her son's character, responsibility, and capacity for growth.
- Sample Letter — Sibling: A brother's account of mentorship, family support during crisis, and lasting loyalty.
- Sample Letter — Spouse: A wife's perspective on partnership, parenting, and commitment to family.
- Sample Letter — Faith Leader: A pastor's testimony about community service and youth mentorship.
- Sample Letter — Employer: A supervisor's account of work ethic, leadership, and mentoring.
- Sample Letter — Coach/Mentor: A mentor's perspective on dedication and positive influence.
- Sample Letter — Neighbor: A neighbor's observations of community involvement and genuine care.
- Sample Letter — Professional Contact: A colleague's assessment of integrity and ethical conduct.
- Sample Letter — Adult Child: An adult child's perspective on parenting and life lessons.
- Sample Letter — Co-Worker: A colleague's account of teamwork and dependability.
Remember: Authenticity Over Templates
These sample letters are meant to inspire and guide—not to be copied word-for-word. The most effective character reference letters are:
- Specific: Include real stories and concrete examples
- Authentic: Written in the supporter's own voice and words
- Honest: Acknowledge the situation without minimizing or excusing
- Forward-looking: Express confidence in the person's capacity for growth